• Wanderer@lemm.ee
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      7 months ago

      What I’m saying its okay for you to do your own things.

      You don’t need to be around her 24/7 and something that will make you happy and recharged could be good for you both.

      It’s like the oxygen mask. You got to put yours on first before helping others

    • jandar_fett@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      Maybe try therapy? Would you she be up for that and would you? Just thinking out loud. There is usually a reason people are indifferent and distant, and if you guys had a setting you could analyze and talk about it, maybe that would be good?

    • Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 months ago

      On the spectrum? Or the dark triad spectrum? Inb4 you tell me she’s a surgeon or one of those insurance mathematicians.