The killing of a 22-year-old nursing student has once again put the spotlight on dangers faced by female athletes who practice sports alone.

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      I actually don’t think this is as true as is often assumed. Men are far more likely to be murder victims than women are.

      Sexual violence is another matter however.

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          I’m not sure. This is a complicated topic and I would assume that a higher proportion of male victims “provoked” their killer in some way. But I don’t know that there’s real data on that. I also think we need to acknowledge that this fact does not justify their deaths.

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      I recently started jogging through this long, dark trail that hosts a nearby homeless encampment, and honestly didn’t think about it at all until my partner raised her eyebrow at where I was jogging. Just one of those little patriarchy taxes that I don’t have to pay.

      Not that unhoused people are particularly dangerous or anything, but still you’re less certain if you’re going to meet someone on a really bad day there

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        I’m a man and I wouldn’t think going on that trail would be a good idea, unless there were lots of other joggers there at the same time. I don’t fear being alone in the countryside but I’m much more wary in an urban area.

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      While a lot of these were certainly relevant in 1990, i think we’ve made great progress in some areas; particularly around precipitation of cognitive abilities, employment, and corporate position.

      Women still suffer a shitpile around children/family views and, as you and this article point out, victimization from sexual assault and violence.

      We could still do with a decrease in men thinking the sun rises out of their assholes, despite being marginal in performance or social values. Far too many basement trolls wallowing in a muddy mixture of Dorito dust and mountain dew, thinking they know it all.

      We men also need to do a L O T of work on developing emotional intelligence, healing wounds from toxic masculinity (boys don’t cry) and passing this on to future generations.

      E; I was trying to reply to the guy who posted the list of white male privileges but failed fantastically.

      Grumbles as he crawls back into his hole to die

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    Yeah whenever I’m out at night it’s:

    Knife? Check.

    Taser? Check.

    Pepper spray? Check.

    Keychain screamer? Check.

    Hope I don’t die! 🙃