• Smoogs@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    I don’t think they live for your opinion of them. Maybe get used to understanding the importance of your opinion isn’t the same to other people. Nor should it be. Not saying you can’t have an opinion. Just that that’s as far as it’s gonna go and you are gonna have to get ok with that. Or just carry it with you til one day you die and you’re still angry about it on your deathbed. Your call on how you spend your energy. Sounds sad tho. Probably sadder than what you think a person who is obese is. At least they found some happy in their food. You just sound outright fucking miserable looking for things to be miserable about and pull people into thinking your misery is super important.

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      Wtf are you talking about? Nowhere does OP say he’s angry or even really bothered by it at all. He just thinks “oh ewww, that looks disgusting” and then goes about his day. What’s more disturbing is that so many people apparently seem to think that being this fat is actually something we should just accept or even celebrate.

      I feel like society should have a role in making sure people don’t ever get this fat. And not because it’s “eww” or ugly, but because it’s fucking unhealthy. Whenever I see a person like this, I feel pity. You don’t get this fat in a few months. This means years and years of bad habits, lack of access to healthy foods, maybe a terrible childhood with parents who didn’t give a shit, no assistance from the people around you who just stand by and watch it happen (or even enable it), very likely a highly fucked up self image and other issues. This is simply not healthy. It’s terrible.

      And this weird thing is happening where people can’t even say these things anymore without being attacked by people like you. I think you actually believe that OP’s opinion is the outlandish one. And that just makes me sad.

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        I feel like society should have a role in making sure people don’t ever get this fat. And not because it’s “eww” or ugly, but because it’s fucking unhealthy. Whenever I see a person like this, I feel pity. You don’t get this fat in a few months. This means years and years of bad habits, lack of access to healthy foods, maybe a terrible childhood with parents who didn’t give a shit, no assistance from the people around you who just stand by and watch it happen (or even enable it), very likely a highly fucked up self image and other issues. This is simply not healthy. It’s terrible.

        And that’s their issues to deal with. And just as much as you think they need help, focus on your issues. Like Go to therapy and deal with your control issues you clearly are struggling with hard here with all the ‘shoulds’ you lash out for everyone else

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        7 months ago

        So you can’t attack people without being attacked…oh my yes, you’re soooooo ‘oppressed’. Poor you.

        And you are complaining that you have to think about the repercussions of what you say.

        You are the snowflake.

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          This is what you take away from my comment? Nobody was attacking anyone until you started berating OP for having thoughts. Do you honestly think I’m walking around calling fat people names all the time? Or that OP does that? Of course not. What we’re thinking inside our own heads does not constitute an attack.

          It’s hilarious that you think you’re on some moral high ground, implying that you never have any negative thoughts about anyone. Go stand on a lego, please.

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            7 months ago

            Yes you have an opinion. You aired it here. I have an opinion too. And I aired it here. It’s not just a game only you get to play. You’re not a victim so you can knock off the persecution bullshit. Not buying it.

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      I think you’re more angry about it than anyone else. You have decided, based on absolutely no evidence, that somebody is angry at somebody else for being overweight, and are rushing to their defense when it isn’t even warranted.

      You’re waving your arms around in an insane manner, knocking small toddlers over left and right, and calling everyone else deranged.

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        7 months ago

        They didn’t have to come in here to say they were offended by large people. But they did anyways.

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          I’m disgusted by gargantuanly fat people. Large people, I am not. I came in here to scold OP and Anon for posting this in the first place. But you made it about yourself.

          Now get your last word in that I’m going to ignore.