Des [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 6 months ago

I feel bad when I don't reply back to a comment

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I feel bad when I don't reply back to a comment

Des [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 6 months ago

just wanted to let everyone know that i do read everything, react IRL, and upbear. my social anxiety and ADHD has crawled even into my posting/commenting online which i was immune to when younger. i was wild in early forums and chatrooms

also not sure how long is too long to reply. things move slower in the lemmyverse but i’m so afraid of a reply being too “stale”

whats everyone else think about reply/comment protocol real or imagined?

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If it’s something I have a good response to, I will definitely keep it going

But usually I just make my jokey-joke-jokes and go on my merry way
- Des [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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  i like when someone replies to me with a jokey joke because it feels conclusive
  
  unless we are having a real convo but eventually those should move to dm or it petters out after a day

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