But it isn’t exactly a cut and dry case to everyone why an old demented goon is any better than a shitty asshole businessman.

You know, I hear you on this one, and I agree we should be understanding of people who vote one way or the other - but that doesn’t mean we should tolerate it. Often when I’ve had conversations with Trump voters, a lot of their opinions are based on ignorance or distortions of the truth, and it’s because they’ve been sucked into a media ecosystem that is purpose-built to feed those distortions to them. A lot of them are working class folks who want to see Trump stick up for the working class and I’m over here like “why would he ever fucking do that have you ever listened to the guy talk what the fuck?” But it simply isn’t obvious to a lot of people. I’ve tried a lot of different approaches with varying levels of success, but I think the most important things are to be open to difficult conversations, to know what you believe and why, and to hold your ground, with a smile of course.