• Annoyed_🦀 @monyet.cc
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    4 months ago

    talk to people who love you it really help because we will miss you

    This is the hard part me think. As a guy that also suicidal like two years ago and slowly walk myself out of it over the year, it’s hard to identify who will care and who will love, i always feels like most people around me care only because i’m about to do something irreversible, not care about me deeply. It’s that cynicism that i feels drive a lot of people to suicide because they just don’t know who will care.

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      4 months ago

      The thing about mental health is, if your brain chemicals aren’t buttfucking you, you can live not because someone else might care, but because you care.

      That should be enough.

      You are enough.

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      4 months ago

      Are you the same person that you replied to just with another account? You both write broken English in the exact same way, it really stands out.

      • Annoyed_🦀 @monyet.cc
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        4 months ago

        Ohh? Do explain about the broken english part, english is my second language, and i couldn’t see anything broken about OOP’s english.

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          4 months ago

          I’m pretty sure its the usage of “me think”, which is not standard English (although methinks together is more acceptable interestingly), as well as the use of ‘feels’ when grammatically it should be ‘feel’.

          To be honest it’s not that big of a deal though

          Edit: also there should probably be a ‘was’ in “as a guy that [was] also suicidal…”