And it have so many faces. I remember getting setup for (mandatory) job counselling by local unemployment office when i was unemployed. Of course instead of getting some real help like actually finding me a job or even just sitting up and helping me search it was a fucking coaching sessions where such a brainnuggets were said like “you will only exchange your time for money and it’s not ok, you need to express yourself”. Even back then i had the hardest time in my life to not flip the table and spit the woman in the eye, but i didn’t since that would have cancelled my health insurance.