Develop into your own beautiful human, first. A lot of dudes are mid at best; myself included

    • falcunculus@jlai.lu
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      1 month ago

      I think you should tell her as a parent that she shouldn’t spend time with boys and instead focus on her studies. No way that will backfire!

      But seriously though what does “failing” even mean here, how can a 13 years old “fail”?

      • Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        1 month ago

        Seems easy? What if they say no?

        That was plan A. I think we’re up to plan J, K, or L right about now.

        In the USA, failing is when they get D’s or F’s in everything, and end up with an F overall in one or more subjects. In her case, more than one.