Hello comrades and welcome to the fifth improvement megathread of September! bonfire

Only two more days until October, it’s a good time to make some plans for the following month.

As usual, some discussion ideas:

  • Do you have any plans for October?
  • Do you want to share something you’ve done in the previous week? Everything counts, nothing is too small.
  • Do you have any goals or plans for next week?
  • Do you have any streaks? For example, “sober for one day.” Feel free to post your streak every day in this thread.
  • If you don’t have a continuous streak, did you manage to abstain from something for a day or more?
  • Did you come across some useful information or resource that might help others?

Poster caption: “What the October Revolution gave to the worker and peasant woman”

Good luck with your goals! unity

  • Inui [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    13 hours ago

    First post in one of these threads.

    I left a Discord of friends I’ve had for around 15~ years because I got sick of endless discussion of anime, manga, and video games and people going silent any time anything real was being talked about. It’s isolating, since I don’t go out much, but has left me with a lot of extra time that I’m trying to make better use of.

    I literally just started like 3 days ago, but I’m taking formal Mandarin Chinese lessons and a class on music theory. I’ve always wanted to speak Mandarin. Music is a relatively new interest of mine, but I frequently listen to music actively for hours at a time, not while multitasking. So I don’t think it’s another ‘side quest’ like other hobbies I’ve explored. I bought an electronic keyboard a few years ago I never really touched but I’m fiddling with it while I learn about music notation, keys, etc. kirby-jammin

    Chinese tones and syllables are hard, but I’m just drilling as much as possible between work. I only got xué correct once and had to move my mouth awkwardly to do it. Hello Chinese is a nice little app that tells you if you’re saying things correct or not, so I’ve been using that until we get partnered up with some people.

    Picking out the key of a song is also difficult, especially when there’s no obvious instrument like a bass guitar to hone in on. I’m pretty okay with rhythm, I think.

    I’ve learned a lot in the past few days and am feeling much more curious and fulfilled than when I would spend late nights chatting in voice calls or whatever. Re-discovering who I want to be and what I am interested in doing.

    Plan is continue with these two things for the next 3 months and not let other things get in the way so I can continue beyond that. Need to also add some exercise into my routine somewhere.

  • pancake@lemmygrad.ml
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    16 hours ago

    It’s been my 11th week in a row working out for 1 hour or more at least 4 days a week, as well as my 10th week doing at least half an hour of French and German lessons every day. 3rd week in a row studying medical literature at least 2 hours a day Monday to Saturday.

    My plan for October is to engage in party activities for an ongoing campaign, as well as try to consolidate my studying routine. In November, I will reduce workout time to 3 days per week, and not go much over an hour each day (currently I spend about 1.5 - 2 hours), so I can focus more on medical literature and improve fast on that front.

    So far off drugs (except caffeine and some alcohol) for 3 months, psychologically stable (I think?). Will quit coffee starting in February, or sooner if I become unstable again before that.

  • LocalOaf [they/them]@hexbear.net
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    14 hours ago

    Trying to clean and reorganize my bedroom this week, it’s been a mess for ages and I want to round up clothes I don’t wear anymore and donate them and clean up my dresser and stop doing the doomer “move pile of clean laundry from a chair to the bed to the chair again at bedtime” thing I’ve been stuck in

    Washed the bedding and did that already

    Need to dust and vacuum and declutter still

    Need to put up new lights and get replacement bulbs for a couple lamps

    trans-hydra jbp

    Clean your room enbucko hexbear-non-binary

  • Ath3ro [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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    15 hours ago

    Giga cut has been going well, this is the second one i’ve done so it’s a lot easier this time around, definitely feeeling more stomach hungry this time around the mental strength is there and i feel a lot more energetic this time around. I’ll continue the cut until the last week of october and then during october i’m also going to do a three week t-break from weed. Probably should’ve done the t break when i started the cut but that might have been too much change. Overall I’m feeling good about these and they’ll be a good setup for me to go into the next month. Keep at it proles

  • Rojo27 [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    15 hours ago

    Chugging along with my workout routine, so mainly just looking to keep it going.

    For October I just want to see if I can lose some weight. Jumped up a bit after getting to where I wanted so I just want to take things a bit slower, but also build habits I can actually keep.

  • Goadstool [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    14 hours ago

    Circumstances of life drove me to backslide pretty hard on my diet. Thankfully things are (hopefully) slowing down, barring yet another catastrophe, and I should be able to allow myself the space to untense and regain control.