• stoy@lemmy.zip
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    2 days ago

    Since most of these questions will be of the NSFW kind, I will take the opportunuty to ask something completely different.

    What is your favourite computer game?

    Oh, and let me just send you a photo of a 50s rail bus on a herritage railroad in Sweden, it is just nice.

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    Do you get a lot of opportunity to indulge your kinks? If so, do you live in a major city?

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      Sadly I don’t. I’ve only really had a chance to do stuff once but other than that, I don’t really get a chance which is pretty annoying

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        Yea outside of a small number of experiences with a like minded friend who is no longer available I haven’t had much of a chance to explore that side of myself either

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          It’s annoying because even after finding someone who is into it, there are always weirdos or people who u feel u can’t trust too much with u being that vulnerable

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            Yea. I mean I’m a dude so slightly less of a concern for me compared to yourself but still concerning.

            I live in a fairly isolated town so it’s not impossible for me to get to events but a little difficult and expensive. Other events and stuff to spend money on always come up. I did go to a Torture Garden event once, but that was over 10 years ago 😱

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              I live in the Uk and Kink events aren’t really a thing here, at least I haven’t seen any about or advertised etc.

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                I’m in England, the north specifically. Kink events do happen in the UK but they’re rare and mostly in London or Birmingham.

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    How often do you get flirted by others?

    Is your friend circle composed mostly of similarly-minded goths, or a funny mix of all sorts?

    Do you talk to your friends about said niche bondage kinks you have?

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      I’d say maybe 4/5 times on a night out I’ll get flirted with. I am the only goth in my friend group really haha I have spoken to them about my sex life but not these specific kinks

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    What is it about being goth that you enjoy? As I’ve aged, I’ve found it difficult to maintain professional employment while having a gothic style. Depends on the field, but most places frown on it.

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      Idk tbh, I’m the manager at a hotel so I’ve never really had any problems with finding employment but I can see why it could be difficult. I just think people’s personal lives and the way they dress etc. shouldn’t be a reason to refuse them employment in general