• OneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.works
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    3 hours ago

    I mean, I didn’t have a partner till I was 20, and didn’t have any friends (aside from partners) till I was almost 25.

    It is super discouraging, after a lot of effort and crying, I finally have a pretty satisfying social life. It’s not impossible.

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      3 minutes ago

      I pretty much re-invented myself around 20 and became a much better person for it and have had a pretty great life for the past fifteen years or so.

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      54 minutes ago

      Yeah I started dating at 20. I’d always had friends but it for so much easier in my 20s to befriend people who treated me right.

      Yeah it sucks. But also, anon’s advice is true. A huge step for me was getting the fuck over myself. Anon isn’t doomed but he has his work cut out for him