It occurred to me that, as an adult, I feel I need a reason to invite friends over. My wife thinks this is pitiful. I invited a couple of friends over for a curry and a boardgame night - it was a fine evening - but without that reason of having a shared activity, I’d never have done it.
Jusy wondered if I’m alone in this, and if there’s any men out there who DO invite male friends over with no plans or expectations for the evening?
Pic unrelated.
I’ve started asking my friends if they wanna run errands with me. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don’t.
In reverse, I’d gladly run errands with them as an excuse to hang out.
That’s what we did when we were younger. Idk why it stopped. Friends would just be like
“Want to hang out today?”
“Well, I have to run some errands. Want to come?”
“Sounds good.”
“Okay, come over and we’ll go do something.”
And that was that. You’d just do whatever, and it was fun.
yeah it was fun
Fuck