I happen to like it very much.

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    To add on to this; Smugness is rampant. It reminds me of Linux user Groups in college. More than half the time was spent shitting on Windows (Reddit), and if you dared to ask a question you were ridiculed for not knowing it, or people who put more effort into telling you to look it up yourself than it would take to answer you in the first place. I can echo the same club mentality as I’ve on more than one occasion described why a particular political idea isn’t viable based on votes in Congress only to be dismissed without any counter argument as “I don’t understand _____”. So there really is no discussion, it’s essentially just shitposting and piling on, and if I liked that I would have stayed on Facebook.

    We need more kind diverse people.

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      At this point, I don’t even care if they’re kind, I just want discussion.

      I often delete comments before I even post them, knowing that it just isn’t worth it most of the time.

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          This comment chain has given me multiple bouts if anxiety for the exact same reason. Thankfully everyone is being nice so far.

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          Yeah I had a few times where I’d take a week off just because I didn’t want to be angry looking at my inbox full of furious 18 year old trans tankies defending Stalin/Xi

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        Deleting before I post is something I’ve done too. Sometimes you just need to type it up, but it doesn’t need to be sent. I get it.

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      shitting on Windows

      Let’s start. Windows 2000 when came out had more scalable networking than Linux.