Outer wilds perhaps?
If you’re experiencing a toxic community environment when playing single player games… You got issues that you need to address yourself.
As for MMO. FFXIV is clearly head and shoulders above most in terms of community.
Path of Exile. People are so chill there. Share resource, chat about anything, have fun and collect item.
The Mount and Blade community is awesome, especially around Bannerlord. If only everyone wasn’t trying to kill their wife…
Last time I had a super blast was battle front 2 over covid
Doom. The classic ones. 30 years old and the community is still strong and healthy
Rust without a doubt
Dark souls before elden ring came out. That game was contentious and kind of tore the community apart.
omori
Minecraft! At least based on the YouTube content and discord servers for those folks.
Deep Rock Galactic 100%
For honor
I found the Warframe community to be very kind and helpful. They just seem happy to see people get into the game.
Outer wilds
Got to be battle brothers for me
I played warframe for like 3-6 months a while back and its easily one of the best communities ive ever interacted with extremely helpful and kind people for the most part very funr experience but the game itself got too grindy for me so i eventually dropped it