Those in the community that wear a collar (or ask that their partner(s) do) do you wear them in public and do you notice any recognition from others when you do?
Those in the community that wear a collar (or ask that their partner(s) do) do you wear them in public and do you notice any recognition from others when you do?
Yes, when I’m out with my partner I have a preference to wear my collar.
I’ve never had anyone comment about it or actively noticed a second glance scenario.
I did have a staff member in hotel reception call me by my pet name instead of my actual name when they looked at it once…
That said wearing it more often than not over the past year has incurred a fair amount of wear and tear.
I recently picked up a couple of cute chokers to wear out and about instead though for casual use, with the collar explicitly for kinky events only.
Less risk to my collar, and still have the same secure feeling of the binding around my neck.