• richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one
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    11 months ago

    In yours, people is entitled to bother anyone at any time, and I’m pretty sure that nobody takes “no” for an answer, so I’m pretty sure your interlocutor wouldn’t want to live there, either. Neither do I.

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      11 months ago

      “Simply turn them down and move on”

      Yep, I can see how you’d think someone who says these words would also think that it’s ok to harass someone. Your logic is incredible, please continue.

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        11 months ago

        Turning a legion of hopefuls takes time and a mental toll. Not wanting to deal with that effort is perfectly legitimate. I know you don’t think so, but it is.

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          11 months ago

          Again, the gym is for everyone. Never said it was wrong to not want to deal with people hitting on you.