If you kill 10 people, you are a murderer and it doesn’t matter if you think you aren’t. “I only killed those people because that is what I had to do, it was war.” Murderer, justified.

“I only had sex with those dudes because that is what I had to do, I was in prison.” Gay, no need to justify loving bussy.

There is no prison exemption, there is only struggling with your Kinsey.