Yeah, it was a surprise just how different it felt. When it’s just text over chat your imagination fills in a lot of blanks, and of course while you’re masturbating you fill imagine it as the hottest thing to do. Also not having to say any of the things you type out loud helps. When you’re actually in the same room with your dick out it’s so very different.
Chatting about porn and jerking off kind of stopped as well. I actually did bring it up once to ask him about how he’d finished in the bathroom, but it immediately felt like that same awkward vibe about it. So from then on we occasionally still brought up crushes, but our main crushes never really went anywhere at that point and we kind of stopped talking about them too.

I think the whole thing was mainly driven by horny curiosity, and after talking about all the details and having done the thing IRL, it was kind of… done? I guess. I did afterwards occasionally fantasise what it’d have been like if I’d reached over and jerked him off. But I’m 99% sure that would’ve taken it too far for him. Since he wasn’t comfortable cumming next to me and stuff.

Happened once. Had a friend that lived in the neighbourhood, grew up together basically so we’d seen each other’s junk before plenty of times during the “show me yours, I’ll show mine” phase or just randomly. Anyway, by now we’d message occasionally and at some point confided in each other about crushes and girls we were into. This led to a conversation (still over messaging) where we both admitted to jerking off while thinking of our crushes sometimes, and then from that moment on the ice was broken and we’d occasionally chat about masturbation and porn and what got us off. I’d usually jerk off during those chats and eventually we both admitted to doing so, talking about it and even mentioning when we’d cum.

So then for the one time, the thing you asked about. I was over at his place like usual. And also like usual we were home alone while his parents were at work. We started talking while playing a game and for the first time brought up the topic of porn while actually face-to-face. Talked a little about the specifics of what kind we liked and where we watched it, what sites etc. So I told him to show me some of his favourite videos, and I’d share some of mine. When we we’re watching his video I was hard as a rock inside my pants and just kinda blurted out to him that it was okay if he wanted to jerk off. Just projecting really, hoping I could do it if he did it as well.

Was sort of an awkward game of chicken / “you first, no you first” situation to start, but we both got them out first and focussed back onto the video. At which point we both “sneakily” started stroking. The whole thing stayed quite awkward to be honest. Unlike with messaging, talking about this stuff out loud and face-to-face was a lot more difficult. So there was a lot of awkward silences and unsuccessful attempts at hinting things. Didn’t really last all that long anyway as he got close to cumming he got up and went to the bathroom to finish. I was planning to do the same after he’d come back, but accidentally got myself to close and not wanting to make a mess in his room I finished into my boxers.

I put those boxers back on and zipped my pants up, he got back from the bathroom, I’d closed the porn. We played a bit more of the game we were playing before until I had to go home and we never really acknowledged it happening after.

Hooked up with a girl off Tinder. I wasn’t all that attracted to her, but I hadn’t gotten laid in a while and she was down to fuck so I wasn’t going to be picky. When she showed up at my place it was clear she’d definitely used her most flattering pictures from a few years ago on her profile, but still figured it was just a one-night-stand so just get on with it.

We got inside when I started noticing (what I thought at first was) a really bad perfume that was too strong. She also acted a little weird, but there was a bit of a language barrier and figured she may just have been a bit awkward or on the spectrum. I wasn’t going to judge. As we had nothing in common with each other to talk about we just moved things on to the main reason we were there and started making out and undressing. As she was really wet I skipped foreplay and put it inside her (after putting on a condom, I wasn’t totally stupid).
After thrusting inside her for a bit she started mentioning how I was allowed to be rough with her, that she wanted me to choke and slap her. I was getting more uncomfortable with the whole situation by the second and decided to just speed up and thrust until I blew my load.
Got her to get dressed again and out of the door.

I think in hindsight the scent of bad perfume may have been the smell of alcohol on her, showing up drunk. That weirdly sweet alcoholic scent. Also explaining her weird behaviour. Which made me so thankful I hadn’t gone along in her request for slapping or choking. (Who the hell asks for that on a first hook-up anyway.) Couldn’t stop imagining what would’ve happened if she’d woken up next day sober, regretting the admittedly bad sex, with bruises of my hand around her neck. “No mister police man, she literally asked me for it. Honest.”

Whole thing really did kind of turn me off from one-night-stands / Tinder hook-ups.

If foreplay is particularly good I honestly prefer to just actually cum during foreplay, so I can start sex in round-2 mode and last quite a while. Instead of going inside her already on the edge of blowing my load.

It really does vary. Going down on her is a huge turn on for me, so if it’s been a few says and we start things off with me going down on her it’ll be maybe 5 minutes before I reach the edge. If we’ve recently done it, or it’s round 2, or if foreplay was short I can keep going for 45 minutes.
Of course it also depends on how long I want to last. I can probably finish in about 5-10 minutes if we’re just having a quickie.

Yeah the first time my girlfriend wet herself in her sweatpants while straddling me, kissing and making out while in my lap, I just… it gave me such a strong surge or warm tingly feelings inside; trust, love, a really strong connection. Knowing she felt comfortable and safe enough to allow herself to be that vulnerable with me.
Nothing to do with anything degrading or dirty for me.
I guess the closest to that is that I sometimes go down on her after she’s just peed. Not really something that happens on purpose, but sometimes in the morning waking up she’s got to go pee. And then back in bed we get to playing. And there’s a bit of a subby angle to me eating her out while still smelling a bit of pee on her. But in general that’s not the main attraction of the kink for me.

Also, if you’re not against paying a bit for your porn, Abby Winters always has some very genuine/heartwarming girl-girl and boy-girl couple videos. It’s professionally produced but it’s very much got that amateur vibe. Might be worth checking out the free preview stuff to see if it’s something up your alley.

As OP mentions it’s not so much about the image quality. It’s about watching two people (or more) have sex because they are horny and having fun. A lot of stuff nowadays is staged and/or clearly made as a product to consume for others. To make others horny. And the people in the video are just doing the motions.

A couple years ago my PH favourites and recommendations would be full of amateur videos of couples just enjoying themselves and just so happening to be recording it. Now pretty much all of it is/feels staged and fake.

I get why. It all gets too messy with regards to consent and age when the accounts uploading and the people in the video aren’t verified. But I do miss the genuine amateur content.

I think the major one for me is a pee fetish. Although for me it’s totally different from the dom/degrading kind.

To me it’s combination of the intimacy and the feeling of relief and warmth. It’s also something that’s stuck with me from very early experimentation.

Like in a relationship or hook-up it’s intimate to touch each other and have sex, but that’s “normal”. I think being comfortable enough to pee in front of or on someone or wet yourself is even more intimate because of the taboo on it. It’s a vibe of complete trust and no judgement, just letting go, literally.

Probably because of that I’m also not really into any of the pee stuff that’s involves the face, or drinking and such. Too much the degrading kind.

I think you’re pretty accurate on the incest stuff, at least for me. Which is probably also why the “step-sis” stuff is so popular. I think for a lot of people the literal blood relation isn’t necessarily the important part. It’s the shared secrecy, sneaking off, hiding, being quiet, the easy acces to someone of your preferred sex right next to your own bedroom without the strings of a relationship attached.

By the way, ‘omorashi’ is the Japanese word for wetting yourself. It’s a desperation and pee fetish, it has nothing to do with farting. (Although it does seem those fetishes go hand-in-hand a lot.)

It’s difficult to find on OF because most of the top accounts are the very over-produced staged content. But there are smaller creators doing more casual amateur content where both people have a good time. Also when it comes to both people in the video enjoying themselves I’ve found that “female-friendly” porn more often hits the mark than the regular pro stuff.