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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • Haha - I’d smile a lot bigger if people weren’t so awful to me about how I look! Even dance instructors told me to stop trying, so it’s pretty discouraging and I don’t want to relive that kind of experience. I’m sure I could improve at dance if I took classes now, but it’s not something I’m that interested in. And it’s not like I don’t have other ways of enjoying music - I worked as a pro musician up until 2017 so that’ll always be there. It’s great that you’ve had better experiences than me in dancing, but try not to judge other people harshly for not having the same talent or interests as you. It’s that kind of attitude that makes me - and others like me - avoid all settings with dance involved.


  • I do not like dancing because I’m not good at it, so I don’t want to participate in it. I’ve been mocked my whole life for how I move, so putting myself out there where the whole point is movement is just a bad experience. I in fact considered not getting married because I didn’t want to dance in front of people. I think my experience is a little more extreme than other ones, but not far off. Why seek out an experience you hate?