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Cake day: July 10th, 2023

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  • My first anal experience was with my first girlfriend and I think not in a very good way. Not a catastrophe, but some things could have been better. First mistake was bringing it up while already making out. She was assertive enought and would have said if she didn’t want to try it, but with today’s experience I think it’s far better to speak about things with a clear head. Second I possibly was a little too selfish while doing it and not care giving enough afterwards. I’d blaim my own insecurity on this but retrospectively it led to no great memory what should have been one.

    Years later I introduced another girlfriend and even later my now wife to anal and it was great! We communicated things early and clearly and didn’t hurry things afterwards.