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  • Voran@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldEvery day.
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    5 months ago

    I don’t look for things to be either angry or grateful about I just get on with life. I respect that gratitude works for you. Personally I find forcing gratitude just drains me. I find I do best just accepting that sometimes I’m angry or stressed and that those are signs telling me something.




  • Voran@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldEvery day.
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    5 months ago

    I’m a nihilist. I wasn’t thinking of God.

    IDK. I respect that gratitude works for others. I personally am not a fan because I feel we have the normal range of emotions for a good reason.

    For example: Anger motivates us to leave an exploitative job or an abusive relationship. Gratitude might very well keep someone in that relationship or in a job where they end up herniating a disk…because instead of being angry enough to leave they tell themselves ‘I’m so lucky! Other people have it worse!’






  • Voran@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldEvery day.
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    5 months ago

    I find gratitude incredibly draining because it’s artificial and also it seems oddly guilt based. I would rather frame things as giving myself credit. I got tasks done. I showed self discipline. Gratitude implies I was handed something on a plate.