I have been using both and have had big differences too. The Autosleep app marks times I just roll over as awake times often. Deep sleep is seldom the same. You can go into the app settings and tweek it to get it closer. With the latest watch OS 10 updates lots of things are kinda screwed up.
Same, mine does that too. What ever is first on the list of actions is what gets selected. There is no uniformity between apps what is first on the list so it’s kinda hit and miss if it’s what you want. I’m hoping with future updates, maybe a triple tap, will change options