I’m going to be 35 and nothing changes my life has been a boring slow downward spiral. Sometimes I welcome death to take me but unless it’s a heart attack I don’t see that happening anytime soon. And I don’t feel like ending myself.
Still sexless, loveless with literary no friends and with a temp job that I dislike. I just drift in this world, I guess I could be worse, living under a bridge, but I still live with my mother and uncle, sleeping in a minuscule room shared with my uncle (he’s another “loser” like me in his late 40s non married living with his sister, my mom). I’m sure y’all heard this before, life is unfair, and it’s true, and I’m sure some other people out there are doing worse than me and are better “fighters” in life. But I’m not them, I’ll never be them, it’s not in me being that type of person.
Btw I’m not saying this just to get a response from you and I don’t need a “happy birthday” reply… If anything that would piss me off more due being insincere, you are not my family and you don’t care about me in the slightest (and rightfully so). But I just needed to say this to ease my pain.
Now maybe you can understand why I welcome the reaper, maybe you can tell me if you’re in a similar situation.
Nothing changes because you don’t want to change.
Every time anyone offers you advice you dismiss it out of hand then post again about how terrible your life is.
Still, happy birthday, I guess.
Every one of OPs issues are completely within their control to change, but they don’t want to hear that. They want their pity party and want us to feel sorry for them. There are plenty of societal things that hold people down, but none of them puts you into this state of mind. This is a state of mind, and an unwillingness to realize that they are depressed and that they need help.