• @li10
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    -324 days ago

    Okay, I really don’t see how it’s that bad tbh. I’ve never messaged anyone like that or been toxic, but it’s so mild…

    I also don’t think it’s been “normalized”, it’s just really not a big deal. I don’t know why anyone would be that bothered by it and think they’re a complete shitstain.

    • The Octonaut
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      1724 days ago

      It’s absolutely normalised. Imagine saying this in any other circumstance playing a game with a stranger.

      That this is mild for gaming doesn’t mean it isn’t toxic as fuck.

      • Instigate
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        924 days ago

        Yeah, it’s hard to imagine two strangers sitting at a chessboard at the park when one goes “LOL checkmate d00d u suck bro!!”. People are far more willing to be toxic arseholes when they don’t have to look the other person in the eye. Anonymity allows for the worst behaviour a person can engage in - just look at platforms with forced anonymity like 4chan. The more anonymous you are, the more of a dick you’re willing to be.