It seems like the person not online as much sort of simulates a lot of unwritten social rules that only people who are able to learn those rules are able to see.

Can someone please tell me they know what I mean by this

  • odmroz [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
    4·
    6 months ago

    u gotta move on to another girl :( if she wanted to respond to your messages, she would (this is also me lecturing myself, I’ve been where I think u are buddy)

    • stigsbandit34z [they/them]@hexbear.netOPEnglish
      1·
      6 months ago

      Yeah probably but I’m just confused why she’s ignoring my messages but following me on TikTok? Is that not strange? I don’t even post shit there anymore

        • stigsbandit34z [they/them]@hexbear.netOPEnglish
          2·
          6 months ago

          Just tonight lol we stopped going on dates more than a year ago. Idk man, probably just a long way to say I wish people used their words. Maybe no neurotype is exempt

          • odmroz [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
            2·
            6 months ago

            I respect the hell out of ppl who don’t ghost me but just tell me straight up. I try to give the same respect to the ppl I go on dates w that I’m not into.