• Mr_Blott
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    2 months ago

    I have never ever even once known what a waiter or waitress’s name was, are people asking their names or something?

    That’s creepy to say the least

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      2 months ago

      I’ve had servers say “I’m so and so and I’ll be your server this evening” but it’s gone from my brain the moment they walk away

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        2 months ago

        Ah I see it’s probably a tipping culture thing

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      2 months ago

      Interacting with another human being as it they were a human being instead of a servant bringing you food is creepy?

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        2 months ago

        I almost always try to use the servers name if I can. it’s better than just hey you or excuse me IMO. I have no idea why calling someone by their name would be creepy.