• MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca
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      3 hours ago

      My partner and I are on year 8? I think? Neither of us care about anniversaries or any of that stuff, so we lose track often.

      We just fit. We rarely disagree, and when we disagree, we’re civil about it. There’s no yelling and screaming about who is right.

      It’s genuinely co-op mode, and we pair up to get stuff done regularly, but when no co-op is required, we just keep living our lives, together.

      So I put a ring on it. Planning to sign the papers next year to make it official.

      • Firestorm Druid@lemmy.zip
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        32 minutes ago

        Congratulations! It’s very much the same for us here. We do get into occasional arguments but it’s usually either very minute and unimportant things or it’s just a misunderstanding that get solved easily.

        Our anniversary this year was also very low-key - I think we didn’t even gift each other anything (super noteworthy) . We used to go crazy in our first few years but we just appreciate and value our time together

      • Fredselfish@lemmy.world
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        2 hours ago

        Going on 11 years here. Though we sometimes disagree, but that is rare to the bliss we find in one another. And yes she is my best friend and lover.