• aburtang@lemmy.worldOP
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    15 hours ago

    We didn’t build compassion though suffering

    Speak for yourself.

    1 - Try being homeless for awhile, if you crawl your way back out of that
    and you treat homeless people like shit afterwards then you’re just an asshole.

    2 - Try hiking the entire Appalachian Trail - everyone is struggling and yet the majority
    of other hikers share food and supplies and help boost morale and the people
    in trail towns are generous and not assholes because they know what you are doing is
    difficult.

    3 - Try being in the military and being the lowest rank E-1 - there is comradery there amongst
    the low rank enlisted. Everyone is suffering and yet regardless of race, class, religion, beliefs, everyone
    has a “we’re all in this together” attitude and it’s easy to make friends if you wish.

    4 - Finally, ask anyone who has ever worked in retail how they view retail workers now.

    Assholes are just assholes. They stick out in society so it makes it seem like they are the majority.

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      15 hours ago

      It used to be socially unacceptable to be a jackass. Somewhere along the line, it became socially acceptable, then desirable, and finally glorified. We have lost the plot, by and large.

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        It used to be socially unacceptable to be a jackass.

        It used to be socially unacceptable to be a jackass while poor. You were always supposed to defer to your betters. The Kennedys got to be assholes. The Vanderbilts got to be assholes. The Pullmans got to be assholes. Their employees and staff were expected to be utterly docile and subservient.

        But a century of rising middle class prosperity combined with a Randian self-centerism transformed generations of people into CEO wanna-bes. American libertarian ideology and the myth of the Temporarily Embarrassed Millionaire has utterly obliterated class consciousness in the minds of the American working class. Millions upon millions of people have it embedded in their heads that they should be treated like aristocracy.

        We have lost the plot, by and large.

        We’ve bought into the propaganda of American Exceptionalism. Every American gets indoctrinated into the theory that they’re above average, that they’re Gifted And Talented, that they’re destined to become The President. There is no universal understanding of the human condition, just people who deserve to be under you and people who climbed above you unfairly.

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      14 hours ago

      Sorry, I mean the “collective we.” Of course individuals do build compassion, but look at the state of America and tell me that the collective we is different than I stated.

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      13 hours ago

      Did the first half of the trail in '22 and I can concur. I had to stop to make money, but it was so much fun and I miss it every day. I’ll be back out there again soon

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      14 hours ago

      I was in the military and my experience was wildly different. If you displayed anything other than hyper masculinity you were a little bitch that anyone could do anything to. Every single woman I served with was sexually assaulted and several of them raped. The rapists were never punished beyond a transfer to another duty station. People constantly stole from each other. Fuck the supposed comradery in the military.

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        11 hours ago

        That sounds shitty. I’m sorry your experience in the military was that way, but I wouldn’t paint the whole with a big brush like that. There are good people and bad people both in and out of the military.