• ryan@the.coolest.zone
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    A useful rebuttal in LGBTQ Nation explained why “cis is a slur” is total bullshit: People who say that cis is a slur don’t offer an alternative term to use that is non-offensive. Because they don’t offer alternative inoffensive terminology, as there is with all other slurs, it’s clear it’s not the word cis they’re objecting to, but the existence of any words to describe the fact that some people are transgender, and some people aren’t.

    If you were to ask one of these morons, I bet they’d say that the alternative non-offensive term is “normal”. “Normal” is a safe and reassuring blanket that tells them that they don’t have to change, that they’re in the right, and that all these other people are abnormal deviants.

    The other portion of it is that they themselves didn’t choose the name “cis” and so they feel as if they are being labeled, and labeling is what they do to others to subjugate and humiliate them as abnormal, so that’s how they feel now that they are the ones being labeled.

      • PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lib.lgbt
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        That’s a technical argument. Technical arguments don’t work on transphobes because transphobes aren’t motivated by logic, they’re motivated by emotion. The correct argument to use on a transphobe is one that humiliates them in the eyes of all onlookers. The only way to reform a transphobe is public shame.

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        asia has the highest population in the world and i guarantee a lot of these people are also racist

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          Ironically (and bafflingly), many people in Asia are racist towards each other.

    • davehtaylor@beehaw.org
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      Yep that’s exactly what they do.

      “I’m not ‘cis’ I’m normal

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      “I’m male, you don’t need any other term.”

      They don’t like the idea of the term cisgender because it implies that there’s another option, and they don’t believe there is. So why define a disparity where none exists?

      There’s no logical argument that can alter their perception