I had been aware of this book for sometime but never really got around to it. Picked it up at HPB a few months ago knowing I should read it at some point and finally did. These are just some of my initial thoughts.

First, a 5/5. It was a really powerful, touching, and well written book. It reminded me a bit of vonnegut in some ways such as the writing style, the black humor, and the use of repetition.

When I started reading it I was at first a little disappointed to find out it was historical fiction but as I made my way through the book I appreciated why he wrote it that way. To paraphrase, “all of it’s true and none of it is”.

I’m very privileged and fortunate enough to have never had to experience this hardship. I’m going to tread lightly and I mean no ill intentions here but this book helped me empathize more with those who’ve had these experiences. I certainly will never truly know, but this book really conveyed the emotions, mundaneness, absurdity, and loss of war, to me at least.

I also felt that this book could be read as a little beyond just war stories. “It’s nobody’s fault. Everybody’s.” I think this applies to even those outside of a war. No one in particular may be responsible for the harms in our world. Collectively we all are. This may be a bit if a stretch but that’s how I interpreted it.

So it goes.

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    Fucking insane fun fact:

    One of my best friends used to live three doors down from Tim; he asked him about this book many times.

    Tim O’Brien himself says that Sweetheart of The Song Tra Bong is the most true to life story in the entire book.

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    I read a few of the stories from that book in a particularly dreadful English class but O’Brien’s writing is so poignant and emotional that I ended up buying myself a copy so I could read more once we moved on to other authors. It is my favorite short story collection.

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    My college english lit book has the first story. One assignment has us reading it. It’s a beautiful story. I later picked up The Things They Carried and it’s still one of my favorite book.

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    That book endures. It helped shape the way Americans have come to feel about the Vietnam war. O’Brien distills the moral uncertainty and the lingering damage. But beyond shaping (or reflecting) how we’ve come to relate to the war, it is also a work of art. People will read it for generations to come, and even without its specific connection to the Vietnam era, people will learn about the horrors of war.

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      It’s a text that’s rich on so many levels.

      Even if you ignore all of the messaging about war (which obviously is impossible), the way he frames to importance of fiction and getting the feel right versus getting the facts right when attempting to understand and communicate trauma is so spot on and insightful.

      I taught that book for years (the only reason I no longer teach the class that uses it as a text anymore), and every year it would inevitably be the text that would generate the best and deepest discussion.

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        Wow… I would love to be a fly on the wall of any/all those discussions… did you find that they would change year to year? Kind of follow the same themes in general? Anything that stood out?

        That book had a hand in shaping me in my 20’s, it just hit so hard.

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    The things they carried is wonderful. Historical fiction isn’t normally my first genre choice but this book is one of my all time favorites regardless. I really liked “Sweetheart of the Song Tra Bong” and the water buffalo bit still makes me sad to the point of almost feeling a little queasy (I’m a big softie or animals / babies / anything too innocent to fully understand it’s own suffering)

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      "I’ll picture Rat Kiley’s face, his grief, and I’ll think, You dumb cooze.

      Because she wasn’t listening.

      It wasn’t a war story. It was a love story."

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    If you want to read more great Vietnam War fiction, read “Matterhorn”, by Karl Marlantes

    I consider it to be one of the best novels I have ever read. Unforgettable

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      The Sympathizer by Viet Thanh Nguyen is a new one. It only has a few parts that are directly war, but I believe it is a great book. It starts with the fall of Saigon.

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      Literally came to the replies to make this suggestion.

      Matterhorn was incredible. The Sympathizer, also incredible.

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      The ending of Matterhorn stands out as one of the best endings of any book I’ve ever read, maybe even THE best.

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    I’m a veteran (peace time) and a teacher. I used to teach this along with Johnny Got His Gun in an American Lit class in the mid '00s. A lot of kids were shocked at the content, and others thought it sounded bad ass. A couple years later one of the kids who thought it seemed BA came back to visit after a tour in Afghanistan. He looked me in the eye and said, “I get it now.”

    I went home and cried.

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      I read The Things They Carried in high school. Took my copy to Afghanistan with me. At some point, one of my cadets walked off it with while I was teaching ROTC. I’m certain it wasn’t intentional, and I can only hope another young lieutenant picks it up off their company commander’s shelf and it continues its journey. That copy was full of literary annotations and life annotations from my time in service. Every time I see that edition in a used book store? I check to see if it’s mine.

      When Tim O’Brien came to speak at the local university, I got a new copy, signed by him.

      One of the most impactful books I’ve ever read.

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        He is rad. I did grad studies in Lit at Texas State, and was luccy enough to not only have him as a teacher, but to smoke outside the building with him and just … hear him talk. He speaks with an eloquence (even in jest) of which I could only dream.

        I am currently reading America Fantastica, and it is brilliant. I have read all of his other stuff. Going After Cacciato deserves the praise it gets, and more.

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      “I know a man who made an anti-war movie… a good one. When it was shown in his home town, army enlistment went up six hundred percent.”

      Thanks for sharing this.

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      I have not forgiven the teacher who made me read Johnny Got His Gun in 10th grade. As you compared these two books, I know I shall not read this one. So thank you.

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      I’m an avid reader but hated nearly every assigned book through high school English. The two exceptions: The Things They Carried and Johnny Got His Gun. They were such a departure from the other books and from what I read in my free time. What hauntingly beautiful books.

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    I heard “How to Tell a True War Story” read on Selected Shorts many years ago and that was my introduction to Tim O’Brien. Totally captivating and mesmerizing.

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      This one is one of his more challenging stories to understand. Once you get it it really opens up your understanding of the author’s mindset.

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    I read this for a class in high school and it’s remained one of my favourites ever since. It was the first book that really made me question the nature of stories, and how a story can be simultaneously true and untrue at the same time. It made me like reading again! I still have my copy 15 years later.

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    I read this for a class in high school and it’s remained one of my favourites ever since. It was the first book that really made me question the nature of stories, and how a story can be simultaneously true and untrue at the same time. It made me like reading again! I still have my copy 15 years later.

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    I read this book in high school and will never forget it. An absolutely incredible read, im glad you got to experience it.

    Ill always be struck by how the book was able to show the loss of innocence in war. The necklace of tongues was also a standout