I have partial facial blindness which makes it hard to picture faces that aren’t super familiar and I can’t create new faces in my head. I end up picturing faces of people I know and celebrities.

It becomes frustrating when I’m reading as the faces morph constantly into my head. I constantly stop to get the faces right. Sydney Sweeney ended up as 2 characters when I read “Bunny” lol. I also get a biased view of the characters this way. It makes it really hard to enjoy reading nowadays. Any suggestions? Different strategies for picturing or reading without picturing?

  • TotesaCylon@alien.topB
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    11 months ago

    Oh this is actually a topic I got weirdly fascinated with and I think it’s related to whether or not a person thinks in words or images. It started when I asked my bilingual mother what language she thinks in and she said “What do you mean? Thoughts are pictures.” I think in words and this was absolutely wild to me. I can visualize things if I try, but by default I just hear the words in my head.

    Turns out she’s a slower reader than me because she’s visualizing every detail by default. Meanwhile, I just read words and get the general emotions. But apparently most of the world is split into word-thinkers and picture-thinkers.

    In short, I don’t picture faces at all. But if you’re usually a visual thinker, I’m guessing your facial blindness is conflicting with that. Not sure there’s a real answer to that conflict other than trying to let it go, but you might find this interesting: https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2023/01/16/how-should-we-think-about-our-different-styles-of-thinking

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    11 months ago

    I don’t have facial blindness but I don’t usually picture faces either. Characters are like background figures in a painting, reduced to only their most striking features which can still be captured at the scale of a small brush stroke. It would be like asking me how to imagine the specific grain on a wooden floor board, that level of detail would just never occur to me.

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      11 months ago

      Same. And I don’t realize I’m doing it. It feels like they’re completely there, but if I suddenly had to nail down the details, I would realize it’s just a vague idea.

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    11 months ago

    Maybe a weird question but does it only happen with “real” faces? Like live action?

    I tend to see stories as animated in my head when I read. Maybe that’ll be easier to visualize?

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      11 months ago

      I’ve thought about that. Do you have any references for picturing stuff animated? Like do you look at art or is it all imagination

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    11 months ago

    Have you tried focusing more on the characters’ personalities and actions rather than their physical appearances? This can help create a clearer image of the characters in your mind without relying on specific faces.

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      11 months ago

      Kind of? Thanks I could try that more before picturing a face. Usually the annoyance comes from having a person in mind and then realizing they don’t fit the character

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    11 months ago

    Hmmm my suggestion would be if you’re reading a popular book to search for fancasts or to go on Pinterest :)

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    11 months ago

    some authors clearly describe facial features and others don’t - if you want, after reading a description, google a similar type face for use as a reference?

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    11 months ago

    I have a very vivid imagination while reading, to the point where I can almost forget that I am reading, like a movie playing in my head.

    And while I do not have facial blindness, I try to not see faces of characters unless I am reading after having seen a tv/movie adaptation in which case it is near impossible not to see the characters from the screen while reading.

    I instead try very hard to go by shapes starting from a blank canvas which is like a faceless mannequin or the of one with details filled out by what i read, such as a red lipstick, purple eyes or a smirk but it’s more like clear details on an otherwise blurry/faceless mannequin.

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    11 months ago

    I used to get really hung up on visualizing everything in books like they were little movies for my brain. Then I realized that’s a real disservice to literature as an art form and also wastes a lot of time while reading, so now I just let whatever comes to mind come and let everything else live there in the text. If it’s important, the author will tell you, but rarely does what a character look like matter more than their dialogue or their actions or their personality and thoughts.

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      11 months ago

      yeah, I usually think of books the same way as someone telling me a story

      like, if my mom goes “and then I went to the bank and saw Judy there” I don’t picture the bank and Judy, I just kinda acknowledge the existence of both in my head, idk how to explain it

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      11 months ago

      Thank you this is really helpful! That’s why I was frustrated- I was seeing actors not the artistic vision of the writer you know? I thought picturing them right was important to understand the book but yeah I like that idea of just focusing on the text not the image

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    11 months ago

    I picture the books I’m reading very vividly, but oddly I don’t really picture faces.

    Instead, I usually make micro expressions with my own face, so I “act out” what the characters are doing with their faces. This helps me “picture“ what they’re expressions look like but without picturing their faces.

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    11 months ago

    When I create a face it sticks for the entirety of the story. If details are added later in the book like a crooked nose or long hair then I skip over it. Sorry it too late, this guy has been here for 3 chapters and he’s staying this way 😂

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    11 months ago

    I’m not faceblind but I don’t really imagine faces for characters. I build a broad generalisation of their characteristics in my head, like hair colour/style, height body type, specific gestures, any accessories they always have, etc. All the things you likely use to tell people apart. Even after a TV show/movie comes out for the book, I don’t add actors faces on the next read through.