I have been judged for being into CNC, DDLG and even for enjoying being choked 😭
Sadly this judgement is mostly from fellow women who assume a woman couldn’t possibly be into these things by herself and that it has to mean a man forced me to pretend I am into them. I think this is a stupid take that takes away from the autonomy of women.
Also someone legit kink shamed me about DDLG saying that people who are into that are either p*dophiles or enabling p*dophilia. And that with the knowledge/specification that all parties involved are consenting adults, and they even continued insisting on this judgment after I also specified that there are no other inappropriate power dynamics/imbalances at play. That really pissed me off.
I had such a hard time with choking. I’m too afraid I would crush their windpipe, when I was in my 20’s. I only really did the choking when she wanted my belt to do it herself. Self choking with a belt is a good way to die.
Now I have control and understand how to safely cut off blood supply and not totally close the airway.
But it’s been a decade since I was with a woman last.
I have been judged for being into CNC, DDLG and even for enjoying being choked 😭
Sadly this judgement is mostly from fellow women who assume a woman couldn’t possibly be into these things by herself and that it has to mean a man forced me to pretend I am into them. I think this is a stupid take that takes away from the autonomy of women.
Also someone legit kink shamed me about DDLG saying that people who are into that are either p*dophiles or enabling p*dophilia. And that with the knowledge/specification that all parties involved are consenting adults, and they even continued insisting on this judgment after I also specified that there are no other inappropriate power dynamics/imbalances at play. That really pissed me off.
What are those acronyms? CNC stands for something very non-sexy in my world.
Are you involved in machining work? I always think that first when I see CNC
That’s what everyone thinks of because that’s what it is.
😂 I’m not sure how many random people on the street would know about machining acronyms either tho
Hmm, what’s more common, machining or rape kinks?
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Consensual non-consent. Dominant Daddy Little Girl.
Computer numeric control. Quite a turn on for me.
Many people just dont understand certain kinks. Choking makes me have the biggest orgasms.
I had such a hard time with choking. I’m too afraid I would crush their windpipe, when I was in my 20’s. I only really did the choking when she wanted my belt to do it herself. Self choking with a belt is a good way to die.
Now I have control and understand how to safely cut off blood supply and not totally close the airway.
But it’s been a decade since I was with a woman last.
I couldn’t agree more, I’m really interested in that kind of play myself and hope to be able to give it a try someday!