Nikolett Ingénue

I have been judged for being into CNC, DDLG and even for enjoying being choked 😭

Sadly this judgement is mostly from fellow women who assume a woman couldn’t possibly be into these things by herself and that it has to mean a man forced me to pretend I am into them. I think this is a stupid take that takes away from the autonomy of women.

Also someone legit kink shamed me about DDLG saying that people who are into that are either p*dophiles or enabling p*dophilia. And that with the knowledge/specification that all parties involved are consenting adults, and they even continued insisting on this judgment after I also specified that there are no other inappropriate power dynamics/imbalances at play. That really pissed me off.

Haha thanks, glad to be here myself, your communities tend to appreciate me the most after all 😜🤗

Maybe it will help you kind of understand it if you think about people who enjoy eating extemely spicy stuff. Like it hurts them but they like it. Same concept with pain in sex, only it additionally comes with sexual arousal! :)

Definitely not for many people though, it’s the kind of thing you either love or hate. So it’s understandable if you don’t get it if you are in the latter category.

I’m really glad you guys are taking a stance against people who just report content creators with zero basis. It’s really sad how prevalent it is (on reddit at least) for people to enjoy NSFW content while still demonizing the creators who make it simply for trying to also have it help them financially in some way :(

Haven’t had a chance to really explore this instance yet but feels really good and encouraging to see how seriously you seem to take moderating it in the most respectful and beneficial way possible for everyone involved ❤️