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    9 months ago

    I’ve been told by coworkers “I thought you were an asshole because you didn’t talk to me for like a week when I first started” several times.

    I have nothing to say, so I say nothing. When I do have something to say, I will say it. It doesn’t have to be more complicated than that. I just don’t feel the desire to fill silence with idle chat when I’m at work.

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      9 months ago

      So someone would say hi and you just stared at them. They aren’t wrong, narcissist.

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        Yes, because “completely ignoring when someone is speaking to you as if they aren’t there” is what is meant instead of “I don’t go out of my way to initiate conversation”

        If that makes me a narcissist by your definition so be it.

        Maybe think for half a second, asshole.

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          9 months ago

          Your melt down reactions over lacking some basic common decency aren’t helping your case any.