I remember watching a video essay about an anime that went pretty much exactly like this but I forgot what it was called. Like even with the creator perfectly describing internalized misogyny and egg imposter syndrome but maintained that the character wasn’t trans. Except in the anime the character literally turns into a woman but it’s supposed to be about “male gets opportunity to become woman but he is still male mentally” and its supposed to be a self insert for the author. Egg prime directive and all but I do hope the creator figures it out.