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hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i’ll add you to the list!
the list as it stands:
- HelltakerHomosexual (9/16 - 9/22)
- GayTuckerCarlson (9/23 - 9/29)
- Luna* (9/30 - 10/6)
- Eco* (10/7 - 10/13)
- oscardejarjayes* (10/14 - 10/20)
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I want to thank all of you. Without Hexbear, and with the community here, I don’t think I would be posting this. I don’t feel like getting into the details, but my egg cracked this weekend. I’m not sure yet who exactly I want to be yet, all I know is that I am scared but I am so happy.
Hi trans mega! Was posting under a different name here related to my deadname and had to let that go. Was trying to hang onto the past.
Finally settled on a first and last name a few days ago. And it’s alleviated so much doubt and dysphoria.
Feeling comfortable in my skin and loving being trans. Love wearing beautiful outfits. Love the presence of being tall and confident and trans. Finding more safe spaces and letting more bullshit go.
Love my trans comrades! Thanks for the help with the awkwardness of my freshly cracked egg the last few months.
Update: I can’t believe I actually did it. My anxious ass actually went and did it. I came out to my boss and she was suuuuper accepting and wonderful
Wait, you’re all actually gay, trans communists? This isn’t a bit?
This tran just signed their name change petition!
The girl I had plans with who dropped off the face of the earth had gotten her phone stolen and had no other means of communication. She apologized and said she’ll make it up to me by buying dinner and having a full girls night
Glad I didn’t listen too much to the irrational part of my brain thay said she suddenly hated me for no good reason.Got a date for my top surgery. It’s in just a little over 2 months. Christmas is going to be interesting with the family.
My surgeon also somehow managed to get my mons plasty covered by insurance. That is a surgery that is almost universally considered cosmetic. That man is a magician, I swear.
First HRT consultation on Friday
27·2 months agoTrans is so communist coded to me I can’t fathom that there are lib trans people. The only time I have really been involved in a trans community is here, so all my trans peeps have been commies.
My dad really said to me “women are strange creatures”. He fr thought that would fly. My entire family thinks I am still the fifteen year old boy from like a decade ago, even though it’s increasingly evident from observing me that I am Unsafe Dyke, Keep Clear.
I was justified in not looking forward to election season. My trans lit class is full of white queer libs lol.
I think I might be a heterosexual trans girl. I’m not attracted to women, and I’m not attracted to conventionally attractive men (like muscular and angular and shit), but a couple other types lol
Also lately I’ve been allowing myself to laugh out loud (lol) and I think I have an old lady laugh 😖 but it’s all good, for most of my life I didn’t have any kind of laugh (a friend from a long time ago even remarked that she didn’t know what my laugh sounds like since I just do an almost silent exhaling kind of thing when I’m amused)
The rehab I went to was a shit show. Incompetent on every level. They dead named and misgendered me constantly AND put me in a room with two cis men. Guess who has a home run criminal discrimination case? This girl! But being real, it was both crushing and infuriating to constantly be discriminated against. I kind of blew the fuck up on the staff before I left, and that felt good.
