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  • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
    2·
    8 days ago

    CW discussion about my perceptuon of my own gender and my feelings about how I percieve others in terms of how difficult their gender discovery is

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    Honestly my gender has always been muscle girl anyway. Like, it’s just a weird experience being kind of a futchy trans girl cause like, a lot of the time the world just sees me as a man or whatever. Not falling into the masc-fem binary neatly is just… More difficult to navigate. And I have friends who do fall into that binary and honestly I’m just a little jealous sometimes lol

    • Thallo [love/loves]@hexbear.netEnglish
      2·
      8 days ago

      futchy

      peltier-laugh

      Not falling into the masc-fem binary neatly is just… More difficult to navigate

      You think this is true generally, or is this just a perception you have?

      I’m just a little jealous sometimes

      Why? Because other people more easily identify their gender?

        • Thallo [love/loves]@hexbear.netEnglish
          2·
          8 days ago

          like really in my head all the time

          Yeah, I’ve been there

          No need to apologize so much! I think you’re a bit frazzled, but you’re perfect meow-hug

      • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
        2·
        8 days ago

        Sorry I didn’t answer your question. It’salnost certainly just a perception I have. Everyone deals with different difficulties when it comes to being trans. I def have it easier than many others.