Recently, I moved to the UK due to the war in Ukraine and have noticed that people here struggle to spell my name correctly. As a result, I would like to ask for suggestions on alternative versions of the name Vitalii that are easier to pronounce. Thank you in advance for your replies.

  • Lvxferre@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    Perhaps the Italian spelling of the same name, Vitale? I expect anglos to be a bit more used to it than to general Slavic names, specially since romanisation adds another layer of complexity. This should stop them from butchering the first vowel, at least.

    Keep in mind that no matter the spelling, English speakers are prone to reduce some unstressed vowels until they’re unrecognisable, or to “stress” them randomly; it’s a restriction of the language itself, not the spelling. I kind of predict that they’ll do it with the last vowel of your name no matter the spelling.

    Another approach would be to find some similar-sounding local name that you like, I know a few Armenian speakers who did this here in the Southern Cone - for the same reasons as yours, people got a hard time pronouncing their names.

    Any way, there’s no “single” answer for that, but I hope that you find one that works for you.

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      1 year ago

      No, I don’t want people to think I’m Italian, but i love Italian language and culture. And i don’t want to change my name completely, maybe i will go with Vito or V+Italy

      Thank you for the reply

  • federalreverse-old@feddit.de
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    1 year ago

    I would definitely suggest losing the second i at the end, that looks weird. Or maybe go for “Vitaly” (which you can tell people spells like V + Italy).

    (Incidentally, a couple years back, I had email contact with someone named “Vitalis”, which I thought sounded like a female and vaguely flower-y name. Only when we finally met in person did I notice he was male. Somehow he didn’t seem too irritated by me having misgendered him in multiple emails though.)

    • VitalyOP
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      1 year ago

      Are you a mind reader? I thought exactly about that omg

      Poor Vitalis

      and thank you for the reply by the way

    • KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      Vitalis is an older brand for men’s hair products here in the US. My grandfathers used it. 😊

  • CoachDom@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    Maybe go for shorter version: Vito

    People tend to misspel my name with c instead of k at the end so to make things easier for everyone I go by Dom

  • kadjiis@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    What about just Vit? I have a colleague with that name. Come to think of it, he might have Slavic roots given his last name. Maybe he’s actually also a Vitalii ;)

  • SomeoneElse@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Is it spelt Вітaлій or Віталію in Ukrainian? I don’t think I’d have any problem pronouncing or spelling your name in it’s romanized form, but I did complete the duolingo Ukrainian course so I have a little bit of familiarity with the language.

    You’ve probably noticed the different ways Зеленский is spelt in English; Zelenskyy, zelensky, zelenskiy… Й doesn’t translate seamlessly to English and ий is even harder. I’d say Zelensky is the easiest to read/spell for English people. On that basis I’d go with Vitaly for strangers.

    I can’t see why your English friends and co-workers can’t get used to Vitalii though. It’s really not that hard. But then I have a very common first name of French origin and a common Irish surname. It’s extremely rare for someone to pronounce my name correctly 🤷🏼‍♀️

    Радий знайомству Віталій. Слава Україні!

    • VitalyOP
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      It spells as Віталій or Віталік(when i speak to my family). Maybe you have no problem with pronouncing my name, but they do. Today was my first day in school after two month of waiting and it was pretty good in general but it was something like introduction day. I’ve introduced myself like Vitalii but also said that you can call me Vito.

      Thank you for trying to learn my language and for your support.

      And Zelenskyy is Зеленський in Ukrainian.

      Дякую за твою підтримку це дуже гріє серце!

  • Viper_NZ@lemmy.nz
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    1 year ago

    I have a name that’s Scottish in origin and people have always struggled with it. People with Irish names like Niamh or Eamonn are forever cursed by people unable to read or spell their name correctly.

    IMO just stick with your name as it is. It’s a great name and anyone who gets it wrong the first time is learning something when they find out.

    • VitalyOP
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      1 year ago

      Maybe you are right, i think i can introduce myself as Vitalii but also say that you can call me Vito

  • Wahots@pawb.social
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    1 year ago

    Vito is probably the easiest for your average “what’s your name?” Queries at a coffeeshop. But I think Vitaly would also work since it’s just the word “Vital” with a Y added to the end. I’m sorry you had to move because of the Russians :(

    • VitalyOP
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      1 year ago

      I think Vito is pretty cool name, now they can actually call me, lol Yeah i hate russians because of this, i cant even explain what they’ve done to my country Thank you for your support