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  • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)@lemmygrad.ml
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    4 months ago

    Okay trying to limit myself to just one to avoid flooding the mega when you unspoiler the text, but did some dress gazing during lunch and I must dresspost

    Dressposting

    So this is one that I love but definitely wouldn’t buy for myself since I don’t think it suits me, Infanta’s Deep Sea Mermaid JSK, specifically version 2 since the original lacks the bit I want to gush about

    So this is the dress! I adore how they created the ‘scales’ for it to imply the mermaid tail rather than just go for nautical theming like every other mermaid dress tends to (including the first version of this one, hence my preference for this version). The scales add such a nice depth to the dress and I love them so much.

    That’s not to say there isn’t other nautical theming to it, the bust is obviously a shell motif and I like how that calls to mind the stereotypical mermaid shell-bra motif without bringing attention to the cleavage and risk sexualising it. Instead you get the larger single shell and some pearls to bring in even more nautical aesthetics.

    The roses might be a bit of a departure from that aesthetic, but they provide a good colour complement to the dark blue and the roses on the bow look like they’re trying to vaguely be shaped like a fish? Idk might just be me looking into it too much.

    God and the blouse! I almost want to buy this blouse on its own it’s so pretty. I don’t really have much to say about it I just really like it.

    Overall the dress is just a very cute take on a mermaid dress that looks good from every angle, I like it.

  • khizuo [ze/zir]@hexbear.net
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    3 months ago

    chat, what color should I dye my hair? ridiculous colors only, I’m not going to dye my hair a natural color. I’m aspiring to [brightly colored hair] and pronouns.

  • SnowySkyes [she/her]@hexbear.netM
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    4 months ago
    Talking about depression, mild mentions of bottom surgery

    Depression has wound up hard the last couple of days. Still hasn’t fully gone away since starting up 3 weeks ago. Dysphoria decided to pop up again for the first time since bottom surgery as well. It’s excessively bad right now, too. Shan’t get into it because I really don’t want to trigger others’ dysphoria, which is partially why I’ve been sent into this spiral. I always find myself wanting to help people out with their issues here, but it takes its mental toll on me over time. And well, I probably shouldn’t be trying nowadays all things considered. I genuinely should take a break, but I don’t want to leave you folks here. This is a great community and I love all of you.

    • Thallo [love/loves]@hexbear.net
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      4 months ago

      You’re very sweet and helpful, and I love having you around here. You’ve made a really positive impact on the community. Best case, I’d like you to be able to browse here and ignore the dysphoria spoilers, but… If that’s not possible, you really should step away. We’ll all survive comfy

      Either way, I hope you feel better soon meow-hug

    • kristina [she/her]@hexbear.netOPM
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      4 months ago
      surgery

      Post operative depression and dysphoria can always be a thing. Sometimes there feels like there’s a pressure to be positive and happy go lucky postop due to various reasons. Any change takes getting used to, eventually things will calm down. Nap, take things slow, and let time wash over you cat-trans

  • DerEwigeAtheist [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    4 months ago

    Sometimes I go on trans spaces on tumblr, and there is so much bullshit and wreckers and stuff there. I didn’t know how good we have it here.

    The “discourse” currently is about how egg jokes are harmful to gnc men, and don’t respect their identities.