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somettimes it upsets me a bit my wife and girlfriend don’t ever hang out. it’s not that they dislike one another, they’ve talked a bunch of times, they don’t have problems witth one another. and like, you can’t force people to be friends I know that. my wife can be quite loud and my girlfriend quiet in groups, so I get why if the 3 of us are in a conversation my girlfriend is quiet. it’s just like, they’re both important people in my life, and I want my wife to see how cool my girlfriend is, and vice versa. it’s not like distressing or upsetting, and I don’t wanna make them do stuff. my relationships work fine without them needing to hang out; I just like showing my best friends people I like, which in this case is one another