• Snapz@lemmy.world
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    55 minutes ago

    Just think about the sad, long life of Janet… This man’s first cousin and long time beard that microwaves his Hormel chili each night.

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    2 hours ago

    Is that a gift shop? Like where they sell fancy-looking jams and scented candles?

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      41 minutes ago

      It is a Cracker Barrel. Restaurant with a gift shop. You checkout at the counter that is in the gift shop section.

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      Hmmm, on the other hand, he’s a fragile man child with a gun, and historically that goes bad for people with my complexion.

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    58 minutes ago

    That narrow-hipped man’s blouse says, “Yeah I suck dicks, but I spits out the cum cuz I ain’t gay brother!!!”

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    6 hours ago

    As if the truck nuts weren’t a clue.

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      The shirt is using an aggressive tone, which is inferring the person wearing is someone who would complain about “those damn libs and their pronouns.”

      But even with the aggressive tone, the shirt is letting us know that which pronouns he uses.

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    10 hours ago

    As a man, I have never been “proud” to be a man, I mostly feel ambivalent about it, it is who I am, I’d rather be proud about my actions than my gender.

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      No one should be proud of a demographic quality like race, gender, sexual orientation, etc. You should be proud of accomplishments .

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      In case you get any odd responses, while many people use ambivalent to mean they don’t care, it actually means you have contradictory feelings, i e., you are both for and against something.

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        Which is true, there are parts I like about being a man, and there are parts I dislike about being a man.

        In general I am comfortable

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          Which is true, there are parts I like about being a man, and there are parts I dislike about being a man.

          …and these days there is probably some specialized label to describe that that isn’t merely “man” because that would be too easy.

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            It’s degrees. Some may really enjoy parts of their masculinity and other may be really uncomfortable with parts of their masculinity. Some may have so much apathy toward their masculinity that they prefer to avoid the label of man because, though that may most adequately describe them from the outside, they have no desire to apply that label to themselves. The concept and performance of gender is a hodgepodge of various qualities that are complicated, often contradictory, and dependent on tons of external factors.

            Those labels are there to assist people while they engage with the nuances of one of the most intrinsic and complex qualities of our subjective experiences in life. It’s messy, but it’s also beautiful that more people are inspecting their lives on such a fundamental level and practicing self determination.

            Man is a perfectly fine label for many, but others may not have the same opinion about the term despite sharing similar feelings to OP and many of the people in this thread; and there’s something uniquely human about that which is worth exploring

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      This. I think it’s kinda ridiculous to be proud of something you haven’t done anything for. I’ll much rather be proud of the thing I did than about shit like where I’m born or as what I’m born.

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        The only time I would say that doesn’t apply is when you’re part of a traditionally marginalized group. Black pride, or queer pride or indigenous pride all make sense to me. Because it’s a collective pride thing more than an individual pride thing.

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          And in that case I think it’s best to think of the pride as coming from the action of resilience. When the term gay pride first appeared it was controversial but the argument was that society had been telling us to be ashamed for so long and we weren’t going to take it anymore and in fact we’ll be proud to be queer instead. And I maintain that if queer phobia had stopped before I grew up it would definitely be very emotionally different, because there’s also the pride of just being different from the norm. You can see that in stuff like in people who are proud to be a redhead or people who are proud of the area they come from but aren’t anymore (I’m planning to move out west and I’m already noticing myself get more Midwestern in anticipation).

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        I will make no secret about how I don’t really understand transgender people, it used to annoy me, but since about a year or two ago I realized that it doesn’t matter to me, and it apparently matters a lot to them.

        So I stopped caring enough to be annoyed, I realized that if they are happy and it doesn’t hurt others, then I have no reason to make their day worse.

        To all trans people, I may not understand what you feel, but I will not be a dick about it, my confusion is my own issue and I will do my best to not make it yours.

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          I wish more people were okay with not understanding other people or what they do to express themselves and their identity, but accepting them regardless, so you have my commendations.

          People way into body piercing confuse me, but if that’s your thing, go for it. As long as you are doing what makes you comfortable in your own body, that’s the important part.