Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades 
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1·3 months agoI like Hexbear.
Complaining about Lemmy the software
Hexbear let’s me export and import settings with seemingly no cooldown. Lemmy(grad).ml tells me to wait a few minutes, so I sleep and try again, and it tells me to wait a few minutes.
Since I am using import to change my pronouns is this transphobia (/s)
Ngl I’m still kind of riding the gender euphoria wave of that guy calling me honey earlier.
I don’t care if it’s somewhat patronizing.
I much prefer people see me and assume I’m a “honey” than a “bro” or “dude” or whatever.
Congrats, you made it
I wouldn’t go that far tbh, idk how well the assumption would stick under scrutiny.
Tho I get why at a glance he would assume the 5’3 person with long hair and somewhat soft features is a girl.Tho I get why at a glance he would assume the 5’3 person with long hair and somewhat soft features is a girl.
It’s almost as if
You’re a girl!
shadow the hedgehog is a transgender lesbian
My mom told me I’ve got a more feminine figure now!
dysphoria, negative thoughts
But then later she showed me this youtuber who’s also a trans woman and almost as old as me, but she was able to figure out she was trans very early on, and got on puberty blockers before moving on to hrt when she was a teenager. Aaand now I feel like shit again
morning, www dot hexbear dot net slash c slash traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
Mo
I’m sick with a virus and I had a fever dream last night that Glen Howerton came out of the closet and transitioned publicly. They then did the same thing for her Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia character. Then somehow toxic lesbian Denise Reynolds healed a huge amount of transphobia.
This morning, I was musing over plotlines that could happen as a result
-Charlie is just head empty himbo accepting of all forms of transgender expression.
-Sweet Dee is tolerant initially but then gets upset that men find Denise more attractive than her.
-Frank doesn’t understand what’s going but wants Sweet Dee to transition to a man to balance things.
-Mac is more concerned that Denise is gay (despite being gay himself), also all sexual tension between them immediately evaporates (Much to Denise’s distress she can’t manipulate Mac that way).
I stuffed a bra for the first time today to fill out a dress, and I think I want a real pair of my own now
More people ought to try it out. If for no reason other than challenging gender norms. Would be cool if more guys just had boobs random days.
Curious how long it would take for cis guys to notice their cis friend had small boobs on for a day. Guess it would depend on their build and how they’re dressed.
New mission: Get my partner to watch land of the lustrous with me :)
rambling about being perceived / transphobia / downstairs
been stuck at the airport all night, but at least my presence is clearly upsetting the cissies
the staring isn’t getting to me the way it used to. i think this is because am more curvy & androgynous now & thus, more confident 
i think there are many factors at play here (estrogen, political climate, my baseline gender-nebulous appearance), but i swear, have never gotten this much attention from strangers. it’s kinda empowering tbh. i don’t care about “passing” in the slightest. like, i could have ten vagoogles & twenty uteruses & chuds would still be chuds. also, crazy how much more i like my cock now that am transitioning. like, the idea of SRS kinda freaks me out to begin with, but now it’s like, yeah, i can definitely work with this pretty thing. used to hate it sooo much lmao.i’m so proud of you. and being stuck at the airport with u was a million times better than being stuck alone.
u are gender warrior
downstairs
When ur feelings toward ur own anatomy change dramatically with Gender
When she runs her hand through your hair
Wait til you get a nice hair combing session~ plus some scritches/head massage oh! Even better if they curl your hair
Well this is weird right, I do beg her for scritches constantly (complete with dumb “nya” noises) and she has combed and brushed my hair before… but she has never, like, really got her fingers into my curls and carressed my head and hair before? Or maybe I just never noticed before now? And uh
This is why we pet our cat and dog girls people!!
I think your disassociation has been resolved
When you told me you’ve been doing that the whole time I literally did not believe it, I have no memory. Holy shit I was so checked out
and holy shit does it ever feel so 
downer thoughts, not like super downer though
Life is so short and so needlessly cruel and so completely random in how it deals out fate. I wish things made more sense. It’s not even cruel enough to be a demiurge style situation or like some cthulhu crap and then everything in our modern lives is set up to bring out our worst possible instincts
It really is.
TikTok really has me creating random stereotypes about trans people because it happens to group me in with certain hashtags. Like there’s no way that all genderfluid people are androgynous and attractive AFAB 20-something who are able to pass as both masculine and feminine right? That’s gotta be a TikTok hallucination.
good morning to the little transfolks in my phone.
feel like shit, ig i can go to the store tomorrow when i feel less like dying, head hurts. shit sucks
I wish I had my gf to use as a pillow; all mine suck.
